Shukor Adnan

Our family driver who has been with us for sixteen good years died suddenly today. He arrived through an uncle's recommendation sixteen years ago for rural Kelantan and become proficient in his job.
He was loyal, hardworking and extremely dedicated to his job. He hardly seemed to tire despite my dad's hectic schedule and played a large role in our family. Work certainly wasn't easy but he stuck through it thick and thin.
He displayed the characteristic honesty and sincerity Malays are known for. He saw me through most of my secondary education, marriage and became friends with my two boys. He was with my family before my youngest brother was born and watched him grow.
His large family migrated to Kuala Lumpur and he did a good job as a family provider. He also recently became a grandfather.
He saw my dad through 4 general elections and was no doubt a big help to him.
As expected, there was sadness and tears all around.
May he rest in peace.
26-5-2009

Back again

The whole month passed in a blur, we we nearly as busy as I used to be i HKL. The department was chronically short wit many candidates going for exams, there was the pressure of doing a short charged rooster and tempers did fly more than once. 8 calls, plus occasionaly coming back on your off day saw the month through fast.

Hopefully this month is a bit easy.

I am also starting to feel exam stress and wondering if I can make it through the big one in november. Time will tell.

I do seem to be spending more time with my elder son shastri. He is growing bigger and stronger by the day and more and more defiant when he gets upset. From time to time, he does need a firm hand which only a dad can possess. I am also learning that as a dad, you need to earn respect and lead by example. The baby Arditya is starting to grow. He is much healthier now and really loves me. I just wish I had more time for him.